The ADHD-friendly dating app
Daily matches picked around your interests and values, real verified people, and a community that gets it. Mattr is dating that works with your brain, not against it.
Free to join · 18+ only · iOS, Android and web
Is there a dating app for people with ADHD?
Yes. Mattr was built as the first neurodivergent-friendly dating app, and that includes daters with ADHD. Every day you get match suggestions picked around your interests, values and the kind of relationship you want, so you spend less time scrolling and more time talking to people you actually click with. Every member can verify their profile for free, so you know you're talking to real people.
Dating apps weren't designed for how you think
If you've ever opened a dating app, swiped for 40 minutes, matched with loads of people and then not replied to any of them, you're not alone. Most apps are built to keep you scrolling. That's a lot for anyone, and even more when your attention works differently.
- Too much choice: endless profiles make it harder to focus on anyone.
- Chats that fizzle: a great conversation on Monday is forgotten by Thursday.
- Feeling judged: having to explain yourself, again, to people who don't get it.
Mattr does it differently.
Dating that works with your brain
Matches picked for you, every day
Daily match suggestions based on your interests, hobbies, values, lifestyle and the kind of relationship you want, not just who's nearby. Less scrolling, more focus.
Say it your way, in your bio
Be upfront about what matters to you, including how your brain works if you want to. Add Neurodiversity to your interests to find people who get it.
Real people only
Free ID verification, a quick live video check with a moderator, or admin profile validation, plus a Verified badge on your profile.
Connect at your own pace
Comment on posts and join polls and quizzes for free. With VIP, join members-only chat rooms and group chats with up to 50 people, so dating doesn't have to start with a cold one-to-one message.
Free to join, upgrade if you want
Classic is free: a full profile, daily matches and messages every day. VIP adds unlimited messaging, advanced filters and seeing everyone who likes you.
Judgment-free by design
A community built for neurodivergent people, where you don't have to mask to be liked. Use it on iOS, Android or any web browser.
What members say
"I love that you get to know people's interests and personality traits on the app. It's way more character based than other apps."
Amy, 23, London
"Mattr has been great in helping me start the conversation with someone – that's usually the hardest step."
Ellen, 28, London
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Start in three steps
- Create your profile: add your photos, interests and what you're looking for. It takes a few minutes.
- Get your daily matches: people picked around what you're into, not an endless feed.
- Start talking: say hello to real, verified people who get it.
ADHD dating: your questions answered
Is Mattr a dating app for people with ADHD?
Mattr is a neurodivergent-friendly dating app, built for people with ADHD and for everyone who thinks differently. It's open to all, and designed to be calmer and less overwhelming than mainstream apps.
Do I have to tell people I have ADHD?
No. What you share is completely up to you. Lots of members mention it in their bio because they like being upfront, but you never have to.
How is Mattr different from Tinder or Hinge?
Instead of endless swiping, you get daily match suggestions picked around your interests and values. Profiles can be verified for free, and there's a community side too, with posts, polls, chat rooms and group chats, so you can get to know people at your own pace.
Is Mattr free?
Yes, it's free to join and start matching. You can upgrade to VIP or VIP+ for extras like unlimited messaging and seeing who likes you, but you don't have to.
Is it safe?
Every member can verify their profile for free with ID, a quick video check or admin validation, and our team moderates the community. Mattr is for over-18s only.
Can I use Mattr if I'm dating someone with ADHD?
Absolutely. Mattr is open to everyone looking for real, judgment-free connection.
Date Different
You don't need to change how your brain works to find someone. You just need a dating app that gets it.